My brother is such a good husband. I think I trained him well (I'm 7 yrs older and he watched me helping my mom and grandmom around the house). Anyway, he finishes up cooking dinner a lot of nights(like he makes rice) and cleans up the kitchen and helps the kids get ready for bed. This is a guy who bends over the open hood of a car all day. I can so tell when guys were mama's boys like my husband. He hardly ever cleans up after dinner for me. Sometimes at 11pm I notice the trash is filled to the brim and smells and I have to ask him to take it out. I will say that most evenings lately, he will clean up piles of debris I have raked up around the yard. I know he works all day, but a few minutes of his time and asking if I need help would be nice to hear.